Beauty... In the eye of the beholder...

It always amazes me when someone says that I am beautiful or pretty...I think I am pretty average. Granted not everyone's cuppa tea... So I have been thinking... What makes one beautiful?

Is it a smile?

Dancing eyes?

full lips?

rosy cheeks?

full hips ? small hips?

Big breasts? small ones?

long lean legs? or long torso?

Is it anything physical at all?

What turns you on to the opposite sex... or same sex?

Is it anything phyisical at all?

What about intellect?

character?

humour?

confidence?

I know for me The first thing is a smile.. If it is genuine...honest. Totally hot! But it really isn't anything physical that turns me on completely. For most women the biggest errogenous (spelling) is her mind. So for me I dig a sense of humour... intelligence... strength of character/confidence. Yep, that is what gets me going...BUT it is the heart... yes the heart that keeps my attention...

Do ya judge the book by the cover... or do you go deeper?

I have to say that it is always a wonderful surprise to hear someone say.. "you are beautiful" ... or "hello gorgeous" those kind of heart-tingling words do tend to melt my heart, and make me blush.

But what else do you see?

Share your thoughts with me bloggers... Is it all about the wrapping... or the package???

Here is

My heart

it's been broken...

It's been wounded...

shattered...

Yet I offer it to you

this heart of mine...

even in it's disrepair...

It belongs to you...

In a sense

It always has

Please keep it safe

and from harm

Guard it with

ALL

that you are

Care for it

as if it were your own

It is a fragile

and delicate gift..

It belongs to you...

Pickin out an outfit for the movies....

Black tanks always work... I was looking for something that looked .. "piratey" I have no eye patches... *sigh* BUT I do have piratey panties... these are a must even though I am the only one who knows I am wearing them...

I have discovered that I am a bad girl... apparently...

People make assumptions by the company you keep... or the things you like.  If you have a healthy sex life that makes you bad. Or if you like a little kink that makes you even worse.

But am I a bad girl?

I guess if you have to put labels on someone.. then I am a bad girl . But I am only BAD for ONE.

My blog is a little naughty... I let you each in to see this part of me... but this is for ONE also.

My world is complicated and unique ... and strangely normal.

By day I am your average woman.. I work ... I play... I clean.. I cook.

But.. then I am also more.

I could just be  a good girl with naughty tendencies...

 

I am feeling...

the need for high heels...

and for sexy underwear...

To slip something on that is beautiful...

and provocative...

I desire his attention..

for him to focus his eyes on me

see me and only me

To know that I please him

and I will be rewarded

It is a beautiful thing...

Ahh Lover,

you know me too well. Maybe see me a little too closely. It makes me feel safe and it excites me knowing that you do.  You answer my questions without a second thought, without hesitation.

You convince me that I am better than what I believe. You tell me that I belong to you and only you. That you and I are forever. When I lack trust in those plans you gently guide me back on course with your tenderness. 

You are steady... unwavering and strong. Where I lack faith you give me yours.

I desire to share all of me my heart, my mind ... share my soul with you.  

So as I dress for you and only you. I tell you this. You are the one.  The only one.  I want to build memories and hopes with you. I know that with you beside me that all things are within grasp... that all things are true.  You are .. my person.. my love... my heart...  I love you!

Shibari